Today's Topic? Feminism.
I can already feel the icy stares that come with even mentioning the word, but it has been so in my face lately that I felt a need to put my own two cents into the already large festering pot of opinions concerning feminism and what it should look like.
Now before I begin, let me start with my understanding of the word.
Feminism: the doctrine advocating social, political, and all other rights of women equal to those of men.By that definition anyone who holds to this doctrine can be considered a feminist. So, please believe me when I say I am all for women being treated equal to men in their value and their rights.
I completely agree that women should be able to get a job and expect to get paid the same amount a man would make in that same position. I completely agree that women are overly sexualized and it needs to stop. I agree, 100%.
It feels like there have been a lot of "movements" lately that aren't really about the equality and more about gaining attention, and it is such a fine line. It's the ever constant pendulum effect that plagues humanity. One thing is too much so we swing back to the other extreme and I feel like feminism as it is has the potential to become that extreme opposing view.
One particular facet of the feminists I have run into is this odd double standard. They expect to be treated equally, but there is an expectation of special treatment as well. On the one hand, these individuals want to be able to have all the same rights as men ("I'll open my own door thank you") but when men do treat them equally there are complaints about it. It definitely sends out mixed signals.
I came across this movement recently where some of the more extreme feminists were encouraging all women to get rid of their "sexy underwear" and wear what have been termed "granny panties" for years because women should be able to wear the latter and still be seen as attractive or at the very least should not be judged on the underwear they choose to don on their bodies.
I get it. Men and women are both people, and a woman's worth should not be based on how she dresses.
I get it. Women have been ushered into this narrow path of what is acceptable to society and we need to break those restraints.
However, when women who don't follow a movement like that because they actually like the way the "sexy underwear" makes them feel are accused of not really being feminists, it seems a bit extreme.
Perhaps, I am showing my ignorance in all of this rambling, but it just seems to me that there has got to be a better way to break down these social barriers without leaving such a negative feeling behind. Wouldn't it be better to fight about things a little more important than underwear choice?
If you don't believe me that feminism is turning into a bully, take a look at this website. Hundreds of women have contributed to this website it's pretty eye opening: http://womenagainstfeminism.com/
All of them support equality, they just don't support what feminism is becoming.
Just a few thoughts.
Grace and Peace.